Dear Dad

One year ago today, my father, Mark Schlafman, passed away peacefully at the age of 80 after living with dementia for four years. On this anniversary, I decided to write him a letter expressing what’s alive in me right now. Writing letters, whether to those still with us or…

When Our Identities Die

This essay was originally published on my Substack, Where the Road Bends, where I share long-form essays on conscious change and life transitions. Jesse stared into the camera, his face illuminated by the soft morning light streaming through his LA apartment. Despite our decade-long friendship and the casual setting—complete…

45: A Year of Death and Creation

This essay was originally published on my Substack, Where the Road Bends, where I share long-form essays on conscious change and life transitions. Today, I turn 45. It’s surreal seeing that number—45—staring back at me, not because of the age itself, but because of what it represents.…